Starting Over: A
New Life, A New You
#startingover #afterloss
#startingover #afterloss
On Valentine’s Day your
partner or wife tells you that your ten-year relationship is over, when you had
dinner, a box of the finest chocolates, and flowers planned for that evening.
You were completely blindsided. You never saw change coming, yet it appeared
like a bag of cool on Christmas, anyhow. Change is everywhere, always—in the
trees, in the flowers, on our skin, in our minds, and especially moving as time
passes. Change happens inevitably. It’s the one thing we can count on with
absolute certainty.
Recently, a bit of change
happened to me that spoiled my dream of the future. I grieved for about a week.
Then, suddenly, a part of my consciousness that observes my own life—my
subconscious mind—began to react to the situation. I wondered if I were sadder
about dashing my future dreams than my partner’s decision to leave the
relationship, because he wasn’t ready for the long term. When I got real with
myself, I suddenly changed gears and began to wake up from my ellusive dream.
What exactly can we expect
from life? People leave their houses all the time, never to come back because
of accidental, causal, or disease-related deaths. Relationships changes.
Children grow up to betray us. Even family, who you expect to always be there,
sometimes ignores you. The opposite situations happens, perhaps, not as often.
Sometimes, the child we expected to be a drug addict, studies to become a
doctor. The black sheep becomes the best friend. Or a tree that looked dead,
suddenly shows signs of life. What do we make of life in these situations?
The greatest lesson of life
is to live in the moment, in the now. If you do so, you a.) rid your life of
the fear of change, b.) make the most of the moment, c.) become more realistic
about life and your own pain body, d.) but most importantly, you stop making
unrealistic expectations about the future. Trust me, even your relationships
will last longer, if you treat them with the precious gift of the now. Stop
expecting the future to be the same as it was yesterday. Change is a constant
given.
The first chapter of my
book, “Finding Authentic You,” is entitled: “The Seven Steps to Effective
Change.” If you want to be able to cope with the change in your life, you have to
effectively change with it. In this book, I provide for you the seven essential
steps to move from grief to a positive picture of the future.
Finding
Authentic You is a self-help guide with 365 Discoveries, meant to aid
you in facilitating some of life’s most difficult challenges, like sleep. But,
the discoveries also lead you to what you believe spiritually, understanding
your goals, learning to believe in your self, discovering the most distinct
you, unlocking all of your negative thinking, and helping you replace it with
positive, creative thought using many different modalities, including hypnosis,
prayer, and psychology. Once you know yourself, then relationship
with Spirit and people is a fairly easy task.
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