Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: The Prisoner of the Past #releasethepast #spiritua...

Can you feel the past if you are completely in the present? Read on...



Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: The Prisoner of the Past #releasethepast #spiritua...: I watched the sunrise at the beach. Immediately I recognized a brand new day arising in my soul. Soft pastels of blues, pinks and yellows ...

The Prisoner of the Past #releasethepast #spiritualadvice #personalpower #newthought

I watched the sunrise at the beach. Immediately I recognized a brand new day arising in my soul. Soft pastels of blues, pinks and yellows mused with the ocean’s tide, so close I could touch it. The amazing then happened. A new world sloped downward and opened a pathway for me to enter. The heavens were mine for a moment.

What I speak about is a gift for anyone who wants to share in the magnificence of creation. You don’t have to be spiritual to observe the powerful thrust of ocean meets new day. You do, however, have to open your heart to the experience, to the present, to the now.

More and more I am tempted to leave my cell phone, camera and past behind to experience the moment. Too often I reach forward toward a moment, only to plan for its capture for Facebook or Instagram. I realized this morning that I could never really capture any feeling.

I certainly couldn’t take a picture of beauty. I could, perhaps, snap a photo of the eyes of someone gazing at the same love I perceived as the bright orange sun snuck up so quickly and effortlessly. Had I closed my eyes for five minutes, I would have missed the entire event.

During the moments just prior to the sun showing itself to the world, I began to feel the pulse of life surging through me. It was as if my body had to begin to move. I started stretching and doing yoga moves that mirrored the waking of the world, my feet wet in the sand and body merging with the earth. I finally understood a sun salutation. As I left the past behind, I walked into the present moment and let it impress upon me its entirety.

When you allow yourself into the perfect moment of the now, you don’t have to forget about the past. There is no past in the authentic present. Today, put away your devices and let go of the idea that every moment has to be for something in the future. You are missing the precious feeling of the now.

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My new book is coming out in just one month: “Your New Story, Your New Life” The Metaphysical Mind. If you want to be the first to read this story, sign up for the launch mailing list at mailto:BoSebastian5@gmail.com.

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This year, if you desire to commit to a change for a New Year’s Resolution, do it with your MIND first. Remember, as in the title of my new book coming out just in time to help you with this (in March)… lol… that all change happens in your mind, first. You must change your Old Story, to make a consistent and long lasting change in Your Life.

Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, 7 Spiritual Secrets to Change Your Future” in bookstores and in online bookstores in May or June of 2016! http://www.amazon.com/Your-New-Story-Life-Spiritual-ebook/dp/B01EIQNAT4/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1461156618&sr=8-1&keywords=Your+New+Story%2C+Your+New+Life%2C+7+Spiritual

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Are you in need of Life or Spiritual Coaching? I've been a life coach and clinical hypnotherapist and minister of New Thought for 25 years. I do my sessions online, so you can even have your session in bed, so that you can go directly to sleep during the hypnosis session. You must have a laptop or a notebook to do these sessions, either on Skype or Facetime. You can give me a call at 954-253-6493. My fee is $95 for an hour.

You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you'll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you'll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

* * *

A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Watching the Sunrise! #releasethepast #spiritualad...

Can you unlock the power of the sunrise? Read on... 



Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Watching the Sunrise! #releasethepast #spiritualad...: Watching the sunrise is like waiting in the silence as one of your amazing dreams rises from the horizon of the Subjective Mind! From ou...

Watching the Sunrise! #releasethepast #spiritualadvice #personalpower #newthought

Watching the sunrise is like waiting in the silence as one of your amazing dreams rises from the horizon of the Subjective Mind!

From our individual minds comes a thought or an idea. When we connect with all of that which is outside of our individuality, we can call this the Universal Mind or social consciousness. Within this consciousness is a creative ability to shape and form unused energy in the universe into something specific in your life: a new job, health, love, truth, wisdom, and a family. You name it, and the universe can provide it in many shapes and forms. There are some rules and laws that cannot be broken if you want to use this power of your creative mind.

If you are living in a state where you cannot go door to door to sell merchandise, you must abide by that law or get fined. If you don’t pay your electric bill, you can’t use the source of electricity connected to your home. If you drink alcohol instead of eat solid food, you will probably have kidney and liver problems. There are laws set out in the world and in the universe that are used to protect us and also give us a slight edge, if we understand them.

The Law of Creative Mind is one of those laws that can help you create a new life, a new world, and bring an idea into consciousness so that it can manifest. This entire process is much like planting a seed:

1. You must use the fertile soil.
2. Plant the seed at the correct time for which type of seed you choose.
3. Deliberately choose the kind of seed you want.
4. Bury the seed in the earth.
5. Water and protect the unborn plant; and
6. Wait for the energy of the earth to crack open the seed for the embryo to take root.

As you can see, most of the process is of your choosing, except one part, the most important part. The actual growing part is the earth’s to do. The earth is “subject” to what you plant. It doesn’t ever throw out your seed and tell you that you cannot plant that particular kind of seed. If you want a weed, you’ll get a weed. If you want an exotic species, you will need to plant a quorum or a root or a bulb. You must plant the idea, but Source grows the idea.

So, to be clear, the earth is “subjective” to your choosing. The earth doesn’t spit out the seed if you plant the wrong one.

You can beg the earth the grow a tomato plant, but if you don’t plant the seed, it will never grow.

If you want to use your creative mind to be power and manifest enough for you and the world, you must learn the rules of Creative Mind. Come join me in this practice. My new book is coming out in just one month: “Your New Story, Your New Life” The Metaphysical Mind. If you want to be the first to read this story, sign up for the launch mailing list at mailto:BoSebastian5@gmail.com.

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This year, if you desire to commit to a change for a New Year’s Resolution, do it with your MIND first. Remember, as in the title of my new book coming out just in time to help you with this (in March)… lol… that all change happens in your mind, first. You must change your Old Story, to make a consistent and long lasting change in Your Life.

Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, 7 Spiritual Secrets to Change Your Future” in bookstores and in online bookstores in May or June of 2016! http://www.amazon.com/Your-New-Story-Life-Spiritual-ebook/dp/B01EIQNAT4/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1461156618&sr=8-1&keywords=Your+New+Story%2C+Your+New+Life%2C+7+Spiritual

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Are you in need of Life or Spiritual Coaching? I've been a life coach and clinical hypnotherapist and minister of New Thought for 25 years. I do my sessions online, so you can even have your session in bed, so that you can go directly to sleep during the hypnosis session. You must have a laptop or a notebook to do these sessions, either on Skype or Facetime. You can give me a call at 954-253-6493. My fee is $95 for an hour.

You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you'll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you'll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

* * *

A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Forging Ahead with Problems #releasethepast #spiri...

How much does your attitude about a situation have to do with the OUTCOME? Read on...



Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Forging Ahead with Problems #releasethepast #spiri...: Yesterday, I awoke with a horrible toothache that had kept me up most of the night. I made an emergency call to the dentist. I was told th...

Forging Ahead with Problems #releasethepast #spiritualadvice #personalpower #newthought

Yesterday, I awoke with a horrible toothache that had kept me up most of the night. I made an emergency call to the dentist. I was told that the preparation for my partial plate that I had had last week may now require me to get a root canal in one of the teeth supporting the partial.

My first dental incident involving this latest procedure began 18 months ago with a cracked root, which was to require an implant. Sixteen months later, after the implanted root was in place, a cap was placed over the abutment covering the implant. Three months later, an X-ray revealed that the abutment had become cracked from stress. Further investigation revealed that the implant was useless, because it was in the wrong position to create the proper support it needed for a cap. Sixty hours and $4800 in the dentist chair was for what? This is the question of the hour?

The answer to this question or any other question about a life’s problem or situation is in your own Creative Mind. What kind of result—positive or negative—is up to you.

My story was frustrated with the news of the root canal after spending so many hours in the dentist’s chair with absolutely nothing to show for it. My prayer and my affirmation is: I have faith that the health of my mouth will all be taken care of.

I must simply go on with my days, my weeks, and months without believing in the worst. I have sown the seeds for a solution for the problem, and now I must wait. I’m not sure why, but waiting I will have to do until the seed of my intention has grown to completion.

Early this afternoon, still in severe pain, I got into my new car to go to the appointment. I put the car in reverse, checked over both shoulders and crashed into a golf cart about 10 feet directly behind me. Much like my tooth, the back bumper was cracked and dented.

My right side of my jaw began to thump to a tribal rhythm that felt as if I was being prepared for a Satanic ritual over hot coals. What would cause so many negative things to happen in so little time… and with so much pain?

In times like this, we beat our heads against a wall and ask: “Am I the one causing the problem here, the behavior, or the pain?” With bad luck, it seems more bad experiences follow until you’re on the verge of giving up. I, however, was destined to not let any of this control my behavior. Instead of ranting, I simply reported what I had done to the front office and left for my appointment.

The idea that I can do much more than just plant a seed in the ground and take care of it is clear, but take care of my positive attitude was up to me.

In the New Thought, we have little to do with the actual growth of any seed into a plant. Spirit, science, metamorphosis, and time take a tiny seed, crack it open in the rich and fertile soil of life to grow a tree. The same concept exists in Spirit for ideas and thoughts in your mind. Spirit has given us the power to plant the seed thoughts into Divine Mind, where all thoughts grow. But the job of growth and complete fruition is God’s not ours—both in the mental construct of a dream and in the physical metaphor with the planting of a seed. Still, taking care of that positive thought (for me, a healthy body, a whole and complete set of teeth) was the vision.

Fortunately, for us, Spirit does not operate on a behavior-reward system. We can all see that many very good people are poor and many narcissistic humans are billionaires.

What does this mean for my tooth and my car? It means that these “things” are not a result of any bad or good behavior. They are they simply situations that are in my life to help me grow into a stronger, healthier, more compassionate human?

Even though I feel like crap physically, and my new car no longer looks shiny and dent free, I cannot see “bad” in any of what happened to me. I simply feel that my life is a little out of control… alright, a lot out of control. But will feeling bad about the situation cause me to feel better? Certainly not!

Most of life is not in our control. We can set out to do many things and be interrupted by traffic, a wreck, a dead battery, a heart attack, etc. The possibilities for being detained from our rewards are endless. And, yet, most of us don’t concern ourselves with the “could-be’s,” otherwise we would stay in the house all day, in bed, and never go outside for fear our simple, daily intentions would always be interrupted with the worst scenarios.

Most days my life goes without a hitch. This week, though, and especially with this one tooth, something negative was holding on. So, I took the advice that I give to my clients: “Ask yourself these two important questions: 1: What would you be without this pain or problem? 2: Is there a lesson to be learned from what’s going on in this situation?”

1. Without this problem, I would still have a brand new car, looking beautiful. Not much else has changed with that issue. I haven’t become angry, nor disappointment about it. It is circumstance. Circumstance does not have life or energy unless I give it my energy. I choose not to give it my life’s precious energy.

If I did not have the tooth problem, I would be doing something fun today on my day off. The best I could was to go to sleep, though, when I got home from the dentist appointment, which was coming up in 5 minutes.

I go to step two. Is there a lesson to be learned by these situations?

1). Take care of your body; you only get one

2). Despite your best-planned efforts, life sometimes doesn’t go your way.

3). Puréed food isn’t all that bad.

4). If you let anger arise from things you can’t control, you just end up being mad for no good reason. Nothing changes with anger, except your own mind, health, and great disposition.

Could I move forward with all of this going on in my life, even the pain in my jaw that was making me want to throw up? Yes, I could and I did. I believed with all of my creative mind that everything would turn out perfectly. This is the best anyone can do in a situation such as this.

Life is a constant lesson. It takes our consistent patience.

I also did one extra thing. I realized I was getting to the point of losing my faith, so I called my prayer partner and asked for help. He began to pray immediately.

When I got to the dentist I was prepared to get a root canal, which is what the dentist had proposed. However, what actually happened was nothing quite so bad. In fact, it was actually not so painful or time consuming as I expected. I got there, received an X-ray, and waited for the results.

The tooth farthest to the back, acting as a buttress for my bridge had been shaved down to be capped for the largest part of the bridge. During that process, the nerves inside that back tooth had become agitated. The dentist simply removed the partial, put a different cement on the back tooth that had a deadening effect on the nerve, and trimmed down the cap. By the time I got home, I actually felt well enough to eat dinner without it being puréed.

Do I believe in prayer? Hell, yeh!

Do I believe that my trust in Spirit and in my intention changed the outcome? Maybe… I’m leaning toward a definite, yes, though.

Ultimately, I have learned a lesson from history. Before electricity, people would walk around with clay lanterns strapped to their ankles. With the dim light of the lamp, they could see about 3 feet in front of them, not far enough to garner much discernment of what’s ahead.

Beyond the next three feet could be monsters or magic. It was up to them to choose what they believed. If you see ahead of you, beautiful things, perhaps, magnificence will appear. If you are frightened of what you can’t see, you may continually take smaller steps, become anxious, and never take too many chances in life, mostly getting negative results.

Choose faith!

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This year, if you desire to commit to a change for a New Year’s Resolution, do it with your MIND first. Remember, as in the title of my new book coming out just in time to help you with this (in March)… lol… that all change happens in your mind, first. You must change your Old Story, to make a consistent and long lasting change in Your Life.

Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, 7 Spiritual Secrets to Change Your Future” in bookstores and in online bookstores in May or June of 2016! 

***

Are you in need of Life or Spiritual Coaching? I've been a life coach and clinical hypnotherapist and minister of New Thought for 25 years. I do my sessions online, so you can even have your session in bed, so that you can go directly to sleep during the hypnosis session. You must have a laptop or a notebook to do these sessions, either on Skype or Facetime. You can give me a call at 954-253-6493. My fee is $95 for an hour.

You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you'll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you'll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

* * *

A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Can the Past Strangle Your Personal Power? #releas...

Why does my NEGATIVE  PAST come up when I pray or meditate? Read on... 



Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Can the Past Strangle Your Personal Power? #releas...: You awaken at 5:30 a.m., before the sun rises, before anyone in your life rises, to be alone with God. What awakes with you is a memory, a...

Can the Past Strangle Your Personal Power? #releasethepast #spiritualadvice #personalpower #newthought

You awaken at 5:30 a.m., before the sun rises, before anyone in your life rises, to be alone with God. What awakes with you is a memory, an old friend, something that pretended to comfort you in the past. The old friend seemingly helped you get even, regain self-esteem from a personal attack that wounded you.

Your old friend, the past, didn’t come to comfort you but to prevent you from creating good and positivity with your God Mind. Your past is strangling the power that would have been unleashed into the universe had you actually sat with God in the silence. But, instead, you chose to visit your friend who literally squashed your truth into nothingness and broke the promise you made to yourself to give up your past.

This is one of the issues of our spiritual age with which we struggle. How do we untie and let go of the anchor that keeps us bound to the shore of humanness, when we could be sailing freely in the ethers with Spirit?

Intellectually we know the Truth. Why does the Truth not always set us free in circumstances that relate to the past, especially past relations that went awry? Why are we holding on to dreams, ideas, and memories of the past that never served us, not even during the time we were living them?

In your human brain are many connections called neural pathways. When an incident happens in your life that impacts you or is similar to another bad situation a neural pathway is triggered. With this trigger comes the same emotions, the same body temperature, the same anger, and even the same physical feelings as when you were first hurt.

This particular kind of mental incident is not as strong as PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress) but mimics it in a lot of ways, especially because it seems to supersede our thinking minds and goes directly to the frontal cortex of the brain, which contains most of the dopamine-sensitive neurons in the cerebral cortex.

The dopamine system is associated with reward, attention, planning, and motivation. Dopamine tends to limit and select sensory information. From this idea, we can see that a memory may flood the frontal cortex of the brain with “reward behavior,” which could keep us locked in this “dopamine” feeling, almost as if in an addictive trans, while we are remembering the story of our past and how we “could have” reacted to save our souls from the harm.

The question is: How do we get out of this trans long enough to get back to our Spiritual Power that always exists within, even during these setbacks from our spiritual purpose?

This has been your thorn in the flesh for a very long time. It is connected to the moments in your childhood when you were helpless, in an abusive situation, and had only your innocent mind to create a place of solace. So, too, this small guy or girl (the inner child) is still operating in your life until you rescue it from the hell fires of the past.

How do you do that successfully?

The part of your Mind that can save you is the same part that gets stuck in your humanness—the observer side of the brain, which connects with the powerful Universal Mind of God. When you discern that you walk down a dark pathway toward reward-revenge behavior, you must rescue yourself, because no one else can, not even God. We have been given a decision maker that is ours to empower us and use in times like these. I call it my adult-boss mind.

When I discover I am on the wrong path or on a path that is limiting my good, I begin by placing my hand on my heart and encouraging my humanness. I tell it that I have heard its need for comfort and power. I tell my inner child what it needs to know to step away from the past feelings of revenge:

“You are and have always been connected to the mighty and powerful Mind of God. You were created in Its image. This Mind is in you and operating as you now. You can choose, in this moment, to let go of the past, which may have served you and protected you then, but no longer serves you now. Or you can sit in your old story for a while longer. Know this, though, you are in the hands of Creative Mind, a power that can give you new life, a new beginning, a new, powerful future, should you choose to believe and let go from the past right now!”

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This year, if you desire to commit to a change for a New Year’s Resolution, do it with your MIND first. Remember, as in the title of my new book coming out just in time to help you with this (in March)… lol… that all change happens in your mind, first. You must change your Old Story, to make a consistent and long lasting change in Your Life.

Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, 7 Spiritual Secrets to Change Your Future” in bookstores and in online bookstores in May or June of 2016! 

***

Are you in need of Life or Spiritual Coaching? I've been a life coach and clinical hypnotherapist and minister of New Thought for 25 years. I do my sessions online, so you can even have your session in bed, so that you can go directly to sleep during the hypnosis session. You must have a laptop or a notebook to do these sessions, either on Skype or Facetime. You can give me a call at 954-253-6493. My fee is $95 for an hour.

You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you'll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you'll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

* * *

A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Why Are So Many of the World’s Icons Dying? #princ...

Have you ever wondered why the world invests so much emotion in the lives of people we do not know personally? Read on... 



Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Why Are So Many of the World’s Icons Dying? #princ...: “I’m in shock!” the first post revealed, which included a sad face. I knew immediately someone had died, not just anyone, a famous icon. T...

Why Are So Many of the World’s Icons Dying? #prince #spiritualadvice #michaeljackson #whitneyhouston #newthought

“I’m in shock!” the first post revealed, which included a sad face. I knew immediately someone had died, not just anyone, a famous icon. Then, as I read on, my friends—via Facebook—began to explain the story, concluding with the Nightly News and this morning’s web announcement about his drug overdose treatment.

Prince, Whitney Houston, Michael Jackson, Karen Carpenter, Amy Winehouse, Janis Joplin, John Lennon, Andy Gibb, Bob Marley… In the past couple decades 47 young musicians have died before their fans expected. What is very interesting is how people react as if they actually knew the singer personally.

It appears that when artist’s work touches the heart of a human being, they connect with such a bond that they let their fragile hearts merge with someone—a safe someone who can’t hurt them—as if the artist knows them in an intimate way. The media constantly barraging us with their personal information doesn’t help our desire to connect in ways we probably should not. We continue to feel we are an integral of their personal lives, when we simply are not.

I am probably one of the very few people in the world that couldn’t even hum one of Prince’s songs. I was surprised when I heard a version of “Purple Rain,” and I didn’t even recognize the melody. This has allowed me to stand apart from the crowds and observe.

As the news spread faster than a gasoline fire in all of these cases, the grief came at us as large as an earthquake disaster. In fact, on the Nightly News, the first five minutes last night were about Prince. Ten minutes later we heard about the world’s devastating earthquakes and floods killing many in Texas. Again, I pause to observe the world and its peculiar behavior.

Even though I knew almost nothing about Prince, I was quick to spread the news to the first five people I talked to after I found out. I was shocked to hear the words coming out of my own mouth. My mother was the first. She shared with me how much she liked Prince.

“Really?” I asked. “What do you know about him?”

“Well, he was always so well dressed, and no one ever said anything bad about him. I mean he was never into any drugs or anything.”

We see in these icons what we want to see, I guess. If we need to have someone to admire, chide, or secretly love, we have these larger than life stars to depend on to sweep us away from our mundane lives.

We spend so much time wondering whom they marry, when they are arrested for traffic violations, caught up in arguing with a lover, or having a child? Does it really matter to our own lives? Or do we simply not have enough life to matter to ourselves?

Honestly, I believe we’ve invested in these artists because their music touched us, but mostly because we have not invested enough in our own lives. We fantasize about being them and having their lavish lives.

The reality is that our own lives seem miniscule in comparison. I guess I have been fortunate enough to have known or have been a practitioner to a few movie stars, sports icons, and singing divas. Trust me, their lives are much harder, much crazier, than you could imagine. Often they can’t sleep at night because they are afraid of disappointing millions. They have eating disorders because they can’t eat like normal people; otherwise they will get fat and lose their appeal. They can’t love and divorce like others, because public scrutiny will kill the very love they have been trying to get from the masses of people they cater to, but can never attain. Why, because the love of all of the people clapping for them will never be enough to fill the void.

You wonder why they turn to drugs. This is why?

Their lives are exactly like yours, however. Their problems are the same. They are simply magnified by social media and news reporters who need something to talk about, someone to make fun of, anyone to scrutinize for the next talk show.

Honestly, I’m tired of all of it. I’m going to focus in on what’s important today. I’m going to tend to my life and the lives of those who need my help.

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This year, if you desire to commit to a change for a New Year’s Resolution, do it with your MIND first. Remember, as in the title of my new book coming out just in time to help you with this (in March)… lol… that all change happens in your mind, first. You must change your Old Story, to make a consistent and long lasting change in Your Life.

Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, 7 Spiritual Secrets to Change Your Future” in bookstores and in online bookstores in May or June of 2016! http://www.amazon.com/Your-New-Story-Life-Spiritual-ebook/dp/B01EIQNAT4/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1461156618&sr=8-1&keywords=Your+New+Story%2C+Your+New+Life%2C+7+Spiritual

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Are you in need of Life or Spiritual Coaching? I've been a life coach and clinical hypnotherapist and minister of New Thought for 25 years. I do my sessions online, so you can even have your session in bed, so that you can go directly to sleep during the hypnosis session. You must have a laptop or a notebook to do these sessions, either on Skype or Facetime. You can give me a call at 954-253-6493. My fee is $95 for an hour.

You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you'll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you'll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

* * *

A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Getting Older & #Staying Relevant #spiritualadvice...

How do we retire from our past anxiety and stay relevant at the same time? Read on...



Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Getting Older & #Staying Relevant #spiritualadvice...: Besides our waning health, loosening skin, loss of interest in current music, and enjoying sitting and doing nothing more than ever, can y...

Getting Older & #Staying Relevant #spiritualadvice #relationshipadvice #newthought #ageism

Besides our waning health, loosening skin, loss of interest in current music, and enjoying sitting and doing nothing more than ever, can you say that your life as someone who is growing older is still relevant?

Just a mere 20 years ago, the average male would live 10-15 years after retirement and a woman would live about 5 years longer than that. Now these figures have almost doubled. We are either taking better care of ourselves or modern medicine is interceding and taking better care of us. Nonetheless, we must look at the second stage of our lives as an Encore Career rather than retirement, otherwise we won’t stay relevant in a world that insists we have a voice and a purpose to stay among the living.

What is older anyway? I feel younger than ever in my mind and heart, even though I’m 55. I look at myself in the mirror and see that the only difference in myself is the gray hair. That wouldn’t even be there if my acting agents didn’t think I was a silver fox and wanted me to get older roles. Interestingly though, as a result of living with my salt and pepper hair has made me embrace getting older in a new way. I like it more than I expected. I feel more appreciated and honored in a world that expects professionals to have more experience.

Just feeling young doesn’t mean that our lives are relevant. We look at the millennials with all this energy and the desire to fight for causes. I, on the other hand, would rather give money than go out and fight. I think my fighting-for-causes days are over. However, I can stay relevant in different ways.

One very important way to stay relevant is to be able to connect with our youth in a way that steers them in the right direction without annoying them. One of the most important parts of my life is being a role model for the young people around me. I love them and try hard to allow them in my life more than ever. This way, I know that what I share in my blog and in my books from my years of hard knocks has been worth it. The youth get it in a way and can pass it on in a way that I never did when I was younger.

What about the children? This is a question I hope we ask ourselves as we get older. How is our life impacting them? How can we make our truth available for those who want to learn?

Can you start a class? Can you reach out to your grandkids? Can you mentor a young person? I’m sure you can think of other wonderful ways to keep your important life lessons alive!

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This year, if you desire to commit to a change for a New Year’s Resolution, do it with your MIND first. Remember, as in the title of my new book coming out just in time to help you with this (in March)… lol… that all change happens in your mind, first. You must change your Old Story, to make a consistent and long lasting change in Your Life.

Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, 7 Spiritual Secrets to Change Your Future” in bookstores and in online bookstores in May or June of 2016! http://www.amazon.com/Your-New-Story-Life-Spiritual-ebook/dp/B01EIQNAT4/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1461156618&sr=8-1&keywords=Your+New+Story%2C+Your+New+Life%2C+7+Spiritual

***

Are you in need of Life or Spiritual Coaching? I've been a life coach and clinical hypnotherapist and minister of New Thought for 25 years. I do my sessions online, so you can even have your session in bed, so that you can go directly to sleep during the hypnosis session. You must have a laptop or a notebook to do these sessions, either on Skype or Facetime. You can give me a call at 954-253-6493. My fee is $95 for an hour.

You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you'll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you'll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

* * *

A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Relationships: Are They for Personal Growth? #spir...

Are personal relationships merely lessons to grow our Self? Read on... 



Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Relationships: Are They for Personal Growth? #spir...: I have been following a dear friend’s Facebook page for years. For the past five years, he has written some of the sweetest words about hi...

Relationships: Are They for Personal Growth? #spiritualadvice #relationshipadvice #newthought #racemind

I have been following a dear friend’s Facebook page for years. For the past five years, he has written some of the sweetest words about his partner. Then, finally the day came when he wrote they were engaged. I was so thrilled for him, because, quite honestly, I didn’t think my friend was able to commit to someone completely.

Fast forward: a couple months later I see that he is pictured with someone else on Facebook. I remark to the posting to find out that this picture is of him and his new boyfriend. My heart sank.

Come on, friends. Please show me that love can last! Show me that my illusion of personal relationship is just that—an illusion. I have never met, may never meet anyone who can stay in a relationship and remain happy.

I was tempted to write a note to my friend and say, “Hey, is it possible to say that we keep meeting people who are a little better for our growth, a little closer to our hearts, and can challenge us a bit deeper—or are we just of a sophomoric behavior and think that personal relationship is about finding the best NEW person and not learning through the challenges of the love that chooses to withstand the test of time?

I wish I were inundated with stories that denied my belief of relationship. I wish that I could say that many people who have endured long-standing relationships were happy and content and thankful. But, alas, they usually have sacrificed much of their life for a meaningless document that taught them little about loving themselves, which is often a much harder lesson than caring for another.

Do I sound bitter? HMMM. I guess I am a little angry that true love hasn’t found me yet. How about you?

I have always dreamed of true love. My friends often have laughed at me when I start remarking about this special person in my life. I believe this is so because they know eventually it will not last. Are they bitter, too, or just pragmatic?

Lately, I have stopped looking for love. If it chooses to find me, it’s going to have to bite me in the ass and take a grand hold to get me to notice or care. Life is a lot more peaceful and simpler when I stay focused on what I can see clearly.

***

Are you in need of Life or Spiritual Coaching? I've been a life coach and clinical hypnotherapist and minister of New Thought for 25 years. I do my sessions online, so you can even have your session in bed, so that you can go directly to sleep during the hypnosis session. You must have a laptop or a notebook to do these sessions, either on Skype or Facetime. You can give me a call at 954-253-6493. My fee is $95 for an hour.

You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you'll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you'll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

* * *

A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]