Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: March 2016

Wednesday, March 30, 2016

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Filling in the Relationship Cracks #spiritualrelat...

Can Spirit Help Find You a Mate, or Is Everything Left Up to Pheromones? Read on...

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Filling in the Relationship Cracks #spiritualrelat...: I had always imagined that the perfect model of marriage would be one that shared a deep spiritual connection, a loving friendship, and al...

Filling in the Relationship Cracks #spiritualrelationships #spirituality #findingpeace #relationshipsadvice #SOM

I had always imagined that the perfect model of marriage would be one that shared a deep spiritual connection, a loving friendship, and also a great physical attraction. I am beginning to wonder if what I considered to be the greatest of these attributes has actually become the detriment to each of my relationships.

Most people start off relationships with a mutual attraction. We have heard that this attraction often is caused by pheromones. From Scientific America:

Still, after decades of research, the story in humans is not quite so clear… Investigators now suggest that a suite of chemicals emitted from our bodies subliminally sways potential partnering. Smell, it seems, plays an underappreciated role in romance and other human affairs.

"We've just started to understand that there is communication below the level of consciousness," says Bettina Pause, a psychologist at Heinrich Heine University of Düsseldorf (H.H.U.), who has been studying pheromones and human social olfaction for 15 years. "My guess is that a lot of our communication is influenced by chemosignals."

I have felt this kind of attraction before, but it has only led me down the wrong road, time and time again. So, I decided that no matter the attraction or scent of love, I was going to find someone who had a belief or a Truth that was similar to mine.

In so doing, I had a few relationships that lasted about the same time as the ones without the spiritual connection. It seemed that my desire to “find” someone was actually the problem in the entire sequence of event. It is my belief that we can sow the seeds in life, but only God or Spirit can grow the tree.

My anxiousness to find love kept me from waiting for the beautiful tree of relationship that God had grown. Instead, I planted the seed for the perfect mate and went on my way to find my own mate. I don’t know if I ever really waited for God to grow the dream of relationship. More likely, as I know that emotional equivalents help our dreams to grow, I have probably stunted the growth of my real mate 100 times. Whenever I found a relationship, albeit a surrogate one, I had lost touch with the one that God was growing for me. Metaphorically, I can’t even remember where or when I planted the seed.

Many people, especially men, are more apt to use sexual surrogacy to satisfy needs while they wait for real love to grow. Does this anxiousness or selfishness somehow stunt the spiritual growth of the real partner that Spirit is growing in Mind? One would have to wonder.

If you decide that you want to take the Spiritual Route for finding love, I would suggest that you spend more time nurturing that seed that you are allowing to grow in the garden of your mind. You will know when it blooms. Your heart will be open and ready. The fragrance of it will draw you to it. We must trust our hearts to lead us in the direction where love leads us.

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This year, if you desire to commit to a change for a New Year’s Resolution, do it with your MIND first. Remember, as in the title of my new book coming out just in time to help you with this (in March)… lol… that all change happens in your mind, first. You must change your Old Story, to make a consistent and long lasting change in Your Life.

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Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, Unlock Your Seven Spiritual Discoveries” in bookstores and in online bookstores in May or June of 2016!

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Are you in need of Life or Spiritual Coaching? I've been a life coach and clinical hypnotherapist and minister of New Thought for 25 years. I do my sessions online, so you can even have your session in bed, so that you can go directly to sleep during the hypnosis session. You must have a laptop or a notebook to do these sessions, either on Skype or Facetime. You can give me a call at 954-253-6493. My fee is $95 for an hour.

You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you'll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you'll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

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A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

Monday, March 28, 2016

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Searching for Peace in a Chaotic World #spirituall...

The Goal is Peace in a Chaotic World: Read on...

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Searching for Peace in a Chaotic World #spirituall...: This is what I know: Peace is everywhere present. However, finding peace can be a challenge in such a chaotic world. Peace, however, is li...

Searching for Peace in a Chaotic World #spirituallaw #findingpeace #spirituality #SOM

This is what I know: Peace is everywhere present. However, finding peace can be a challenge in such a chaotic world. Peace, however, is like being a crystal in the chaos. Nothing can challenge the substance that has been formed and shaped by time and pressure. Peace is as ancient as days and as restful as sleep.

The obstacle to peace is memorizing its feeling, its presence, its delicate fragrance, in the time and in the moment of struggle.

As a hypnotherapist I have had many clients tell me, after a session, that they had never experienced such peace than directly after being hypnotized. If they had never felt peace, then it would be impossible to recall in times of distress. So, practicing peace is the key to manifesting it into your daily life.

Meditation is the time in which you practice peace. Meditation is the learned presence of peace for a period time, using breathing, visualization, relaxing techniques, and even mantras or affirmations. A steady amount of time in practice with these meditative techniques will inevitably impact each day, because you will recall Peace’s Sweet Fragrance in times of the worst stress.

Ultimately, you do not have to search for peace, if you consistently allow it in your heart as part of your daily routine. There are many discoveries and blogs on my website that teach you how to meditate. Just do a search.

I even have some YouTube session on my channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCztrvb5LsNjmmpUxi5y4xRw or you can checkout my book: Meditation, Meditation, Mediation: http://www.amazon.com/Meditation-Practical-Guide-Inner-Peace/dp/1502865165/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1459188371&sr=8-1&keywords=bo+sebastian%2C+meditation

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Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, Unlock Your Seven Spiritual Discoveries” in bookstores and in online bookstores in May or June of 2016!

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A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Saturday, March 26, 2016

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Your Mind, the Universe— Is There a Difference? #s...

What is the difference between your MIND and your BRAIN? Read on...

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Your Mind, the Universe— Is There a Difference? #s...: This is what I know. From an intention, from the Mind of Spirit, God created everything we know and see as ourselves and as the universes....

Your Mind, the Universe— Is There a Difference? #spirituallaw #shapingyourfuture #spirituality #SOM

This is what I know. From an intention, from the Mind of Spirit, God created everything we know and see as ourselves and as the universes. It is said that this Mind of God is firmly grounded and stabilized by the Law of Love.

Somewhere in this creative process—God, as the essence—decided to create, in kind, a human like Itself. So, we must all be what God is. When we look in a mirror, if we do not see God, this statement cannot be true.

When we look at the universe, do we see the majestic power of a Creator? If we do not see majesty and power, we do not recognize God. If we do not recognize God, we cannot possibly see the nature of God in ourselves.

What is incredibly interesting about the paragraph above is that all of this, which I know, is computed, deducted, and formed in a mind that is contained in the fragile shell of a human body. But, is our brain the same thing as our Mind? If you took the brain out of the body, would it still hold all of the vast information we attain during life or would it die holding nothing in its cells?

When we dream we get a great idea of the unlimited expanse of the Universal Mind we use through this fragile brain. Our brains allow us to compute and deduct what we experience in this world and also in the dream world of the Mind. With both worlds competing for power in your brain, which do you allow to be the leader of your brain?

If you allow money, pretty and petty things, the allure of sexuality and fun to completely encompass the brain, then you will not be able to experience the total expanse of the Unlimited Mind of God. Enjoying life is perfectly wonderful, but we must balance it with our truest nature, which is godlike.

We can see into this mind through the consciousness of Divine Mind, which we are connected to, should we plug into Its Infinite Power. This would be like wanting to use electricity, so we plug in the toaster and get power. Without plugging into the surge of power, we get no toast. Without plugging into God Power, we do not get access to the power of Divine Mind.

Some of the greatest minds in the world have understood this concept. You would hear from these great scientists and forward thinkers that they spend much time in contemplation, first, before ideas come through them. Usually, in the quiet, inspiration comes abundantly. Why? Because this is the time that we connect with the Whole, with the one Mind that is ours in perpetuity.

You are not just your body, my friends. You are a human being, holding the vast, eternal Oneness of God. You are the Mind of God living, moving and working as God on this earth. If you choose to see your life as this, everything must change.

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Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, Unlock Your Seven Spiritual Discoveries” in bookstores and in online bookstores in May or June of 2016!

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A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Friday, March 25, 2016

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: A New You! #spirituallaw #shapingyourfuture #spiri...

Do you think that your dream of your amazing future is too big to attain? Read on...

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: A New You! #spirituallaw #shapingyourfuture #spiri...: Did you ever wake up with the thought: I cannot stand to live one more moment the way I have been living? I must make a change or I am si...

A New You! #spirituallaw #shapingyourfuture #spirituality #SOM

Did you ever wake up with the thought: I cannot stand to live one more moment the way I have been living? I must make a change or I am simply going to have a nervous breakdown.

If so, you’re not alone. 70% of all people hate what they do for a living. They hate how they have to strive to keep a roof over their heads and, most likely, hate the cubbyhole they have boxed themselves into to stay afloat financially.

For someone who has enjoyed what he does 95% of the time 95% of my life, I can tell you that the other 5% in corporate America was hell. I know that with absolute certainty. Would I trade the days of wondering where my next dollar would be, if I would be insured, and the insecurity of owning my own business for all of the security of a 9-5 job?

Absolutely not—not in a million years.

First of all, what adult likes to be told what to do? Unless you own a business, in a Corporate American job you can be assured that you are submitting in some way to another higher-level human. In so doing, you feel as if every bone in your body resents this chore. Beyond the security of your everyday needs is a part of you acquiescing to someone else’s idea of what you should do, how you should do it, and even telling you what your next steps must be. Very few people have the authority in their own jobs to do what they want, when they want, and where they want without being subject to some kind of audit from the higher-level Corporate Ranks.

So, how do you get out of this conundrum without sacrificing your high-paying job and the security of your family and home?

First of all, any good idea deserves a blue print and plan that has taken some well thought out steps to see if what you are planning is even conceivable. So, think about your greatest idea for the perfect future you have been dreaming about and begin to put your thoughts on paper.

Secondly, take your seed thoughts to the Subjective Mind and plant them in the Mind of God where all dreams are fertilized and grow with Universal Might. (If you are not sure what the Subjective Mind is, do a search in my blog site for the term. There are many discoveries on this subject.)

Third, believe that the doors of the future will begin to open in due time.

Fourth, the most important step is to move forward into your future with the power and force of a creator, one who has been made and formed in the mirror image of the Divine!

Can God make a mistake? Can the thoughts that created you make a misstep? Will the power that keeps the world moving and growing stop at leaving you in a no-win situation?

If you believe otherwise, then you can perceive, dream, and create any new future you desire with the Power of the Universe on your side. And,

“if God before you, who can be against you?”

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Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, Unlock Your Seven Spiritual Discoveries” in bookstores and in online bookstores in May or June of 2016!

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A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Thursday, March 24, 2016

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Life Is a Tapestry #failure #synchronicity #findin...

Is it possible that all of us and everything are connected? Read on...

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Life Is a Tapestry #failure #synchronicity #findin...: Sometimes, fate, Spirit, life—whatever you want to call it—leads us to the most interesting people. I find that when I’m most tempted to b...

Life Is a Tapestry #failure #synchronicity #findingpeace #spirituality #psychology

Sometimes, fate, Spirit, life—whatever you want to call it—leads us to the most interesting people. I find that when I’m most tempted to bail out of a situation, but force myself to do it anyway, I am always faced with one of those synchronistic moments that suggests that life is a finely woven tapestry. Last night was one of those moments.

I met a guy in my Spanish as a second language Meetup group who was really nice and funny. His family is Spanish and Italian. They speak only Spanish at home, but he was born in the U.S. and speaks English otherwise. He never really took the time to learn the basic tenets of Spanish. We decided to hang out because he is about at the same level of understanding as I. In fact, we can both teach each other.

Last night we decided to get some pizza at Hollywood beach for his 29th birthday. We brought a blanket, a bottle of wine, and my bluetooth speaker so we could listen to some soft jazz. The night was warm and the moon full. The evening was amazing and could not have been more beautiful. However, just before I was about to leave, I had the feeling I just wanted to sleep. I had no desire to go at all. Still, for some reason, I did not cancel—mostly because it was my friend’s birthday, and I didn’t want to ruin his evening.

As he gets in the car, we begin to chat both in English and Spanish, mostly in Spanish. I thought, ah, this is why I’m here. I really do enjoy learning to speak in another language. A fantastic feeling of accomplishment happens when I find myself immersed in Spanish culture through the language.

As we began to share about our lives, he shared about his ex, which still seemed to sting, I could tell. He told me stories that sounded familiar, as we all have experienced people who care less for us than we do for them; we have all had people try to control us; and we have had people use us. I was compassionate to all of the above.

However, at the end of the story, he began to describe his ex. Incredulously, the only person he had ever cared for in his entire life happened to be the first guy I dated when I moved to Florida. I have dated three guys since I have been here for no more than three months each and broke up for much the same reason. None wasn’t the right one. But, what are the friggin’ odds of one of those 3 guys being his ex?

I look forward, now, to see the lesson behind all of this.

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Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, Unlock Your Seven Spiritual Discoveries” in bookstores and in online bookstores in May or June of 2016!

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A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Wednesday, March 23, 2016

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Finding Peace in Disruption #peace #findingpeace #...

How do you get on with your life after something horrible, like a terrorist attack? Read on...

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Finding Peace in Disruption #peace #findingpeace #...: If you are anything like I am, you are probably feeling the grief of the world lingering on your shoulders from the bombing yesterday. Thi...

Finding Peace in Disruption #peace #findingpeace #spirituality #psychology

If you are anything like I am, you are probably feeling the grief of the world lingering on your shoulders from the bombing yesterday. This is called social consciousness or the experience of social awareness for those around you. Social consciousness is a unified field of energy in one common Mind. You are not alone if you sense the prevailing feeling of many people around you. This just means that you are sensitive and also compassionate, which is never a bad thing. However, we must get through our day, so how do we move on from this feeling of malaise?

Yesterday, I spent most of the day feeling a sense of powerlessness and wanted to sit in my recliner and be quiet. But today, I realized I had enough of this feeling. Life must go on and love must also prevail. This will not happen when the world stops as a result of 3 humans making a horribly negative choice to kill.

I took a couple of hours to meditate on love and hope this morning. I saw the many people hurt in the process of this hate coming together to find stronger, deeper love. I imagined a world of you and I, not you OR I. I believed for the greatest in humanity, not the worst.

This kind of meditation ultimately lifted my soul to a different level of energy, one of hope and compassion. I realize that to be love, I must be in my life, living it every moment of every day. I must fashion each moment with my truth, never wavering, not even for a moment, when negativity happens. I can grieve but still believe in my heart that Love and unity will ultimately prevail on this Earth.

Namaste.

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Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, Unlock Your Seven Spiritual Discoveries” in bookstores and in online bookstores in May or June of 2016!

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A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Tuesday, March 22, 2016

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: A Barrel of...

Belgium: What can we do to help? Read on...

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: A Barrel of...: What do you do when you have Energy Vampires in your life? Read on... Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: A Barrel of Crabs and Pr...

#Belgium Bombing: Love in Every Language #languageoflove #relationshipadvice #spirituality #psychology

On this beautiful morning, as always, I meditated before I looked at the news, my e-mail, and Facebook. In fact, most mornings I avoid all such annoying frequencies, so that I can hold on to my peace for as long as life will let me. Most days, though, life catches up with me fairly quickly and begins slinging mud. Today was no different.

I opened my Facebook page to find the first message from a friend who lives in Belgium: “I’m safe!”

I, of course, had no idea why he had written such a message, but my inclination was strong. I read further down the page to find the first stories of the horrific bombing in Belgium. I wish I could have held him in that moment, but the best I could do was be with him in mind and send a message back thanking God for his safety.

I turned on the television to see President Obama speaking of the matter to an audience of Cubans. In one part of the world, Democracy is trying to mute the voice of division, while in another part of the world, hate brings a strong moral divide.

One outcome that hate never understands, nor expects, is how disaster, injury, and injustice does not do a very good job at separating victims. It actually unites them, making all of us stronger and more compassionate.

I don’t suppose there are many people this morning or this afternoon saying, “Isn’t the world a terrible place?” They are more likely to be mourning the loss of the innocent lives and are taking the high watch as their hearts and minds merge with the social consciousness that would unite rather than separate.

Cuba, on one side of the world unifies, trying to find common ground with the United States. On the other side of the world, tragedy also brings unity, love, and compassion for a much very different reason.

You do not have to study a different language for very long before you realize that most languages have more than one word for the English word love. I have always wondered why the language that seems to be the presiding spoken language around the world would diminish the many different kinds and facets of love down to just one word.

But, after this morning, I realize that the word itself doesn’t matter, what language you speak inconsequential, even how many different variations of love there are. There is but one Love operating through each of us and in the world to create peace, even in the aftermath of slaughter.

Love always seeks to build a world that denotes You AND I, not You OR I!

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Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, Unlock Your Seven Spiritual Discoveries” in bookstores and in online bookstores in May or June of 2016!

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A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Monday, March 21, 2016

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: A Barrel of Crabs and Prayer Partners #prayerpartn...

What do you do when you have Energy Vampires in your life? Read on...

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: A Barrel of Crabs and Prayer Partners #prayerpartn...: Did you know that if you have a barrel of crabs, you don’t need to put a lid on it so none of them escape? If a crab were to try to escape...

A Barrel of Crabs and Prayer Partners #prayerpartners #energysuckers #relationshipadvice #spirituality #psychology

Did you know that if you have a barrel of crabs, you don’t need to put a lid on it so none of them escape? If a crab were to try to escape the barrel, another crab would grab it and pull it back in. Isn’t that just as interesting as imagining actually having a barrel of crabs? However, it does serve as a great analogy about the negative or positive energy of those around us.

Dr. Chris Michaels, a noted speaker and author, shares that psychologists have recently discovered that you are, and will eventually become, an amalgam or the sum total of the five closest people in your life. This analogy speaks to me and should probably speak volumes to you. If you are becoming bitchy and anxious, you probably have people around you who are also acting this way, most of the day, most of the time.

The question is: Do we rid our lives of negative people or learn to not absorb negative energy?

When you live with negative people, work with negative people, and love negative people, no matter how spiritually capable you think you are, you are subject to this negative energy, especially when you have a down day. We all have these low-energy days when we don’t have the momentum to do our jobs, let alone ward off negative people. Also, we cannot be spending half of the day warding off bad energy, and expect to have resources left to do the powerful things we want to achieve in our lives. So, yes, I think it’s time to weed out the negativity.

As Dr. Chris Michael says: You don’t have to throw these people out of your life. However, you can gently side step, far enough away that you create distance enough between you and the negativity. Then, also, you can become more and more positive. When you do this, the negative people will naturally not want to be around you. (paraphrased)

When I moved from Nashville to South Florida, I made a concerted effort to wait for authentic friendships to evolve. Of course, no one wants to be without friends to support them, but having negative friends is worse than having no friends at all. For me, I spent a great deal of time wanting to be in the “in crowd.” So, I would spend time with people I liked, was friendly with, but did not necessarily nurture my soul or lead me to my best self.

Today is a different day. I counted my close friends in Florida and realized that after almost two years of living here, I have only three, and two of them I met online and live in other countries. Over the two years, I thought I was making great friends, until life situations entered, and they proved they could not go the distance with me. Instead of holding on with dear life, I simply let go.

I still have many close friends from Nashville, but developing closeness and authentic relationship takes time and the willingness to let go of people, almost immediately whom you know will not help you become the best person you can be. Your heart will tell you when and if you need to let go. You just have to resist being anxious about loneliness.

I can say that there is one person in my life right now that supports me totally and I him. We talk everyday, pray everyday, and work out our issues everyday with one another in the most honest, forthright, and transparent ways I have ever experienced. We do all of this over Skype, because he is in another country.

When I think of this, I have to laugh. I would have never imagined developing a prayer partner/friendship with someone so far away. But, the truth is, Spirit can take us anywhere to develop that kind of relationship. When you connect on a spiritual and mental level, you do not need the body to be in close proximity to communicate and pray.

I have a myriad of people around me, and Spirit has nurtured a friendship on Skype with someone from Ireland that I can depend upon to be my rock. This is actually a miracle. I thank God for him everyday. I actually look forward to our time together, because I know I will feel better every day after we speak and pray. This is the beauty of looking for, searching for, and being open to a special someone with whom to share your heart and develop spiritually.

We all need to have this kind of relationship. In fact, I’m wondering how I lasted this long without a prayer partner.

Going forward, look at the five closest people and ask yourself if they are nurturing your life. If they aren’t, begin to side step them out of your life to make room for people who can undergird you and support your spiritual growth.

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Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, Unlock Your Seven Spiritual Discoveries” in bookstores and in online bookstores in May or June of 2016!

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A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

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Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!

Wednesday, March 30, 2016

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Filling in the Relationship Cracks #spiritualrelat...

Filling in the Relationship Cracks #spiritualrelationships #spirituality #findingpeace #relationshipsadvice #SOM

Monday, March 28, 2016

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Searching for Peace in a Chaotic World #spirituall...

Searching for Peace in a Chaotic World #spirituallaw #findingpeace #spirituality #SOM

Saturday, March 26, 2016

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Your Mind, the Universe— Is There a Difference? #s...

Your Mind, the Universe— Is There a Difference? #spirituallaw #shapingyourfuture #spirituality #SOM

Friday, March 25, 2016

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: A New You! #spirituallaw #shapingyourfuture #spiri...

A New You! #spirituallaw #shapingyourfuture #spirituality #SOM

Thursday, March 24, 2016

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Life Is a Tapestry #failure #synchronicity #findin...

Life Is a Tapestry #failure #synchronicity #findingpeace #spirituality #psychology

Wednesday, March 23, 2016

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Finding Peace in Disruption #peace #findingpeace #...

Finding Peace in Disruption #peace #findingpeace #spirituality #psychology

Tuesday, March 22, 2016

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: A Barrel of...

#Belgium Bombing: Love in Every Language #languageoflove #relationshipadvice #spirituality #psychology

Monday, March 21, 2016

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: A Barrel of Crabs and Prayer Partners #prayerpartn...

A Barrel of Crabs and Prayer Partners #prayerpartners #energysuckers #relationshipadvice #spirituality #psychology

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