A psychologist friend once told me that the hardest part about separation from someone we loved is that our human body’s actually feel deprived of the chemical or pheromone that our partner had emitted while with us. This chemical design is meant to keep us bonded together when we marry.
A pheromone is a secreted or excreted chemical factor that triggers a social response in members of the same species. Pheromones are chemicals capable of acting outside the body of the secreting individual to impact the behavior of the receiving individual. There are alarm pheromones, food trail pheromones, sex pheromones, and many others that affect behavior or physiology. (From Wikipedia)
When going through a breakup, or a death, you should find it imperative to realize that you will certainly feel a physical connection to the person missing, because of the LOSS of this powerful pheromone in your life. You will feel a physical condition that eventually passes. But, just as any real physical addiction, time is of the essence when dealing with your loss.
Recently, I have had a few losses in my life. I have been amazed at how my physical body has completely shut down around all social behavior, in general, in order to heal from the loss. My mind and physical self crave alone time to grieve and adjust to the social change that must happen in my life as a result of these losses.
The first days were physically painful. My heart expressed heaviness, and my body was so distressed that I could barely eat. Each day, thereafter, however, the feeling of distress has diminished. I woke up feeling almost normal today.
My prayer for you and for me in times like this is:
“Spirit that exists in all living things and things that have passed from my site, I know that we are ONE! As the foundation of creative power is Love, grounded in truth, and expressing in compassion, I know that Love will never, and CAN never diminish from me. The loss of someone in my life is a real human reaction, which I will nurture with kindness. But, I will always recognize that I cannot ever lose LOVE, because I am made of the very essence of Love, itself. I’m thankful for this gift of love and release my intention to the Law of Love that always returns to me all that I need. And so it is!”
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