Sunday, May 31, 2015

Far From Over How Deep Is Your Wound? #wholenewyou #relationshipadvice #breakups #whatstrending

In most of our lives we go through times of incredible change, no matter if we want to or not. Usually, we have some sort of AHA moment, a great epiphany, perhaps. Then, we let go of whatever it is we had been struggling with. However, if you have lived long enough as a spiritual seeker and working on your own humanity, psychologically; you know that where there is one layer of struggle, there is usually another, and another, and yet even another.
I have never met anyone who hasn’t had numerous healings from the say instance in his/her life. Healing is a process. Just because you made amends or forgiven someone, doesn’t mean that resentment isn’t still lingering in the inner recesses of your mind. A deeper healing may be on its way, using someone or something completely different from the original source of pain.

I once had a dear friend who had struggled with women and relationships, to the point where he was about to give up. He never seemed to be able to settle into a relationship without major struggle. He was jealous and needed way more intimacy than any one woman could give him, which led him to confusion and a bad temper. Eventually the relationships would end tumultuously.

After every relationship, as good life coaches and therapists do with each other when they just happen to be best friends; we would always decompress with each other. We would share what we learned from every situation. With his relationship situations, because they were as a result from Anxious Attachment Issues from birth, his lessons were like chipping away at Antarctica. Honestly, I never thought he would get through the thick layer of icy cold resistance to love that kept him from finding a real relationship.

Alas, after many years of digging through the rubble to find solace from yoga, meditation, and weeks away at silent retreats, I believe he has finally gotten to a place where he can have a normal relationship. He got married a few months ago.

I share this story because, as “humans being” we simply never stop learning on this earth plain. If you think you are finished, think again. However, to temper that statement, just because you are still in your third year of residency to be a physician, doesn’t mean that you can’t teach your younger students and begin heal patients. As we become masters at being human, we can, also, still use our gifts that we have learned along the continuous path of psychological and spiritual schooling, which has definitely been directed right from Source!

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