Wednesday, May 6, 2015

Releasing Control, Gaining Pleasure #releasingcontrol #ego #Self #spiritualadvice

My entire life people have always pegged me for a Virgo, because they said I was very controlling. Everything in my life had its place. On the upside, I always had a list of things to do, each item on my list had a scheduled time to be completed, and I never was late. On the downside, life is too damn exciting to be this regimented. Although, in one lifetime, I have accomplished more than most people do in ten, I wonder if I’ve missed out on the subtle moments that people have when they sit calmly allowing life and the universe to contribute its gentle nudges to press us forward.

I have a particular friend who has been encouraging me to let go and simply be in times that we are together. Of course, instead of just adhering to his advice, I thought, okay, I’ll use this premise as a spiritual lesson!

However, what began as a trial lesson turned into a vast array excitement, and surprising moments of pleasure and delight. I’m finding pieces of myself I didn’t know were present, because I had locked them up with all of the unorganized and subtle thoughts in my mind. As I let my Virgo go, slowly, I notice that each individual part of me has a plethora of colors. I’m not just sitting on the cusp of Virgo or Libra, quiet or loud, and vivacious or shy. I am all of the shades of these colors, as well.

For me, I realized that as a child, in order to accomplish my goals, I set aside the submissive, shy child to step forward and lead with my stronger character—the one I taught myself to be to survive. As I’m safe now, in the arms of my higher Self, I can now let out the guy who has become willing to let others lead. I realize with this change that I get to let go of lots of responsibility, as well. This is certainly an upside for someone who carries most of the troubles of the world, his family, and his work on his shoulders.

So, here’s to letting go!

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