Showing posts with label the subconscious mind. Show all posts
Showing posts with label the subconscious mind. Show all posts

Thursday, September 3, 2015

Our Powerful Subconscious #Subconscious #spiritualadvice #self-discovery #InfiniteMind #SOM

“The soul is the seat of memory (or subconscious), the mirror of mind in the individual. The soul holds the creative power within us, creating from the patterns given it, and from the memories it contains. We gather soul, or subjective force, as we accumulate the right kind of experiences (positive ones). The law of the soul is subject to the conscious spirit: tendencies set in motion in the soul, or subjective life, tend to produce their like in the objective world. From this is deduced the possibility of the healing power of the spoken word, operating through mental law, for the law of mind is always subjective,” says Ernest Holmes in the Science of Mind (parenthetical remarks have been included by me).

The above words are hard to understand. Let’s try to parse out their meaning together and see if we can make sense of it and understand the role of the soul and the subconscious in our lives.

The soul contains the memory—a record of everything that has happened in our lives. These memories, held in the brain trigger the neural pathways that cause patterns—both positive and negative—from the past.

The soul is subjective to—or DEPENDENT ON—our purpose or deductive and reasoning mind. So, remember: the soul is like the soil. We plant seeds there. So whatever we have planted in the past, if we haven’t uprooted it, it will still be growing there. The soul has creative memory, but this memory is subject to our thought. This is like the soil that keeps producing the plant or issue in your life that has deep roots and that you have not uprooted.

Very much like the soil, buried deep in the dirt are roots that you may not even remember planting. As the purveyor of this soil, we have to weed out those old plants and dig up the roots to get rid of the results. If you have ever gardened before, you’ll know that, sometimes, roots have deep connective tendrils that spread and entangled with other roots—the roots we actually want to survive and flourish. So, sifting through the dirt, we must find every last remnant of the unwanted roots to get rid of the manifestation or the growth from that particular OLD ROOT. This all happens in the Soul.

We can use our thinking mind to change the issues and tendencies of the subconscious with persistent determination. In other words, if we really want to get rid of the manifestations of the past and change the habitual thinking or act we keep doing, we must continue to observe the actions of our humanness and change the pattern with our thoughts.

If we go back to our metaphor with the earth being the soul, this would mean, daily checking for those unwanted roots and plucking out any manifestations of (or growth from) those roots. This means, not just uncovering the roots that are near the surface, but digging deeper and searching for the cause to make complete change in our resulting actions.

I am knowing that this Discovery will help you understand the nature of the soul and the subconscious, so that change becomes easier for you in the future. Please know that you can always comment on this discovery with questions, which I’ll be happy to answer.

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Thursday, October 9, 2014

What Your Subconscious Creates #relationshipadvice

Recently, I met a man who absolutely exemplifies who I should NOT be dating according to Attachment Theory. He had the swagger of confidence (for me confidence relates to control), he was muscular (a protector), he was a lawyer (a “fixer”), and had other qualities that made him fit just perfectly into that niche of Avoidant Behavior, which has been to my detriment my entire life.

(What I’m about to write takes some knowledge about Attachment Theory. If you haven’t been reading my blog for long, go back to http://findingauthenticyou.com/?p=5066 to read more about this psychological issue. Also, the book Attached. by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller is also the perfect manuscript to understand how relationship works according to Attachment theory.)

After we met, in a class about spirituality, I convinced myself that he was a good catch. Though after having a date, I realized that he was exactly what I should NOT be reaching toward. Still, a part of me held out hope that I could fix my own pattern of anxious attachment if I persisted consciously, which is a lie unless both people are aware of the problem and available and ready to fix the issue. So, I lay my cards out on the table with him in an email and simply asked if there was room for me to hang out with him sometime, because I really thought he was a nice guy.

When I didn’t hear from him for three days after the email, I decided that this was a message from Spirit that I should stop contacting him. My prayer and my conscious message to myself was this affirmation: “Divine Love draws together and holds together those who belong together, so that the glory of God may be made manifest.”

In recent blogs, I have been sharing how to create and manifest in your life. One certain way is to dream big and use your power to create from the subjective mind into the subconscious mind. But, what we have not talked about is the messages that flow to and from your subconscious without your deliberate attempt at manifesting. In other words, I believe, even though I prayed the affirmation above, I secretly wished for the opposite. The power of my wishing held much more power than the blank words of an affirmation, which proves a theory about mental equivalents that Ernest Holmes shares in The Science of Mind.

mental equivalent is a feeling you get when you imagine something that holds incredible meaning to you. For instance, if you dream about prosperity and think about a great friend you know who is rich, easily shares her wealth, and is loving, you may more clearly manifest your dream of wealth, because you have attached a mental equivalent to your creative thought.

After the weekend with no phone call from my new friend, I had a legal issue that blew up in my face as a major problem. Of course, the person I reached out to was this lawyer friend. He immediately came to my side as the “fixer.”

As I prayed about this and sat in the silence in meditation, Spirit ripped down the walls of self-deception. I realized that I had manifested this legal problem somewhere in my subconscious mind, so that I would have an excuse to reach out again to this lawyer. It’s an ugly truth for me to share with you, but it’s an honest one.

What our subconscious thinks and believes from our attachments often supersedes the frontal cortex of the brain and allows you no access to the truth unless you become a careful observer of your own life and actions. So, I was unconscious of the underlying message my mind sent out to the universe. What I got in return was a horrible reason to have to call anyone.

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Coming Up: We’ll talk more about how to change those old messages tomorrow.
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