The Yoga Nazi
This morning during my yoga
class, I shared with my students that I overheard someone talk about me in the
locker room yesterday, saying that I was very strict. They all laughed and
said, “We can’t imagine you like that.”
Then Katherine from the back of
the classroom said, “Oh, I remember when they used to call you the YOGA NAZI!”
“What?” I proclaimed. “Really?”
She was dead serious. The
entire class laughed, as I am the complete opposite of that now. I can’t
believe how behavior that I managed to change over the years for the better has
still followed me after, at least, fifteen years of change.
I guess the reality is that we
can’t afford to ever be negative or ugly to anyone. If that person were to tell
the next person, then the next person told another person, eventually, the
exponential possibilities of you being even worse than you were actually were
is endless.
My advice: JUST DON’T!
For someone like me who banks
on his reputation for business, I would recommend that you do every thing you
can to change branding. We use the
term brand changing as a way in business to make an old, perhaps bad image,
better and new—to give it a facelift. The new image can be as simple as a
slogan and a new logo. What people “see” is change. When someone see a symbol
of change, they are more likely to give it a second chance.
I think about my own new
branding. About six months ago I changed all of my businesses to the name:
Finding Authentic You. I got new photos taken and posted them with the
new branding. When I write, I consistently talk about my own personal change,
not just because that is pertinent to my life and blog, but also as a business
owner to show people that change is possible. Not only is it possible, I can
help you do it, because I have made this transition myself.
When I played around with
different brands, I thought of many names and logos to represent what I do.
What all of the health and life coaching, hypnosis, yoga, and even vocal
lessons came down to was change—authentic change. We all have enough ephemeral
change in our lives; not so many have true, page-turning, cover-changing,
color-blinding transitions.
That’s what I want for myself.
That’s what I want for my clients. I want someone to look at my business
profile and say, “He’s who I want to be like! Those are footsteps I want to
follow!”
So, if you have found yourself
changing for the better, but you suspect others are not seeing the significant
change you personally perceive of yourself, it is time for a changing of the BRAND.
Do something completely
different. Change your hairstyle, your look, your image, or hire a professional
consultant to help make a difference. All of these things will make your
friends, your old enemies, and your business relationships take a second
glance. That’s what we want. We want the opportunity to say, “I am not the same
person I used to be. Give me and my new self a second chance! Let me help you
to see that I’m no longer that old self and am much more the person I want all
my friends to be like. I want to be real, supportive, loving, compassionate,
and most importantly, authentic!
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Bo Sebastian is a Hypnotherapist and Life & Health Coach,
available for private sessions to QUIT SMOKING, Lose Weight, New Lap-Band
Hypnosis for Weight Loss, CHANGE YOUR MIND, CHANGE YOUR LIFE! at 615-400-2334
or www.bosebastian.com.
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