Most of us have spent our entire life avoiding our own hurt and discomfort, blaming others. If you think hard enough, you’ll find someone responsible for the bad things in your life. I certainly have played the blame card far too often. Today, is a new day, though. Blame is just lame. It’s unhealthy for you and certainly doesn’t serve the world in any positive way. I seriously doubt it has affected the person you are blaming one iota. So, here are three wonderful ways to let go of your resentments forever.
- Take responsibility for everything in your life right now! See how it feels to say, “Yes, this happened to me. But, life just happens—always.” I’m not responsible for the rain and the thunder, but I certainly don’t blame the sky. Today, I take back my power!
- Write down each situation in your life when you have used blame as an excuse. Find a way that each situation has forced you to grow and become stronger.
- This is probably the hardest step: Begin to thank the person and God for being in your life for that time period.
When I look at my life and see the people who have caused me the most pain, I also see the biggest times of growth. This is the way I like to look at life:
All of our spirits set out to learn specific lessons in this lifetime. We all got together before we entered into our human bodies and decided which part we would play in each other’s lives. The spirits that were the closest to us, loved us the most, were the ones who made the biggest sacrifices. They played the hardest roles in our lives to teach us our biggest lessons. So, now I see people who have hurt me—spiritually—as the ones who have the deepest spiritual connection to my growth here on earth.
This may sound like a fairytale. But, it works for me. Let’s face it, if you want to take your power back, you must always find a way to make life work for you, not against you. Everything is working together for the good! The foundation of life is love. If this is true, then we must act like it. These words alone will change a blaming heart into one that loves!
I want that for all of us!
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