Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: In Perfect Order, In the Perfect Time #waitinggame...

If you know God is working through you, why are you SO ANXIOUS? Read on... 



Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: In Perfect Order, In the Perfect Time #waitinggame...: This is what I know: everything from the tiniest micro-cell to the unfolding and expanding universes is Spirit. You and I are made of the ...

In Perfect Order, In the Perfect Time #waitinggame #relationshipadvice #spirituality #spiritualadvice #psychology

This is what I know: everything from the tiniest micro-cell to the unfolding and expanding universes is Spirit. You and I are made of the very substance of God. From the thought and expression of God, Spirit formed us in Its image. As the expression of God on this earth, we are creators in this microcosm, just as God is the creator of the Macrocosm of the Universes. If Spirit is interested in creating a mirror image of Itself in human form or in spirit form, then we would be inclined to believe that the power of the entire universe is completely invested in the forming, molding, and developing of mankind.

With this being said, why are we so anxious about life? If we truly believed the above statement, thought about it, and contemplated the reality of it, we should have no worries. We would have responsibility, yes; but we would no have anxiety. For the very God with whom we existed in Mind from the beginning, has our entire lives in order and we are learning in the time and space that we need to get life right!

This may mean going through a horrible addiction and coming out a completely changed person. This may mean suffering a terrible accident to find your strength in mind, not in body. This may mean trying multiple times to get something done, to achieve the utmost in your life, only to fall on your face a few times before you win. Nothing is for naught. Everything is for the Good of Spirit, who shaped and formed the worlds.

Today is a day of reconciliation for all—a day to rest and sit back in the reality of God in you, the hope of Glory.

Take a break and meditate on this thought and let it settle into the deepest part of your soul. Feel it in your toes and finger.

“God in you, the hope of Glory.”

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This year, if you desire to commit to a change for a New Year’s Resolution, do it with your MIND first. Remember, as in the title of my new book coming out just in time to help you with this (in March)… lol… that all change happens in your mind, first. You must change your Old Story, to make a consistent and long lasting change in Your Life.

Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, Unlock Your Seven Spiritual Discoveries” in bookstores and in online bookstores in May or June of 2016!

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Are you in need of Life or Spiritual Coaching? I've been a life coach and clinical hypnotherapist and minister of New Thought for 25 years. I do my sessions online, so you can even have your session in bed, so that you can go directly to sleep during the hypnosis session. You must have a laptop or a notebook to do these sessions, either on Skype or Facetime. You can give me a call at 954-253-6493. My fee is $95 for an hour.

You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you'll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you'll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

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A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Plenty of Time! Really? #growingold #relationshipa...

Older, divorced, tired of looking for love, and definitely don't have the energy to get back in shape AGAIN to date? Is there hope? Read on... 



Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: Plenty of Time! Really? #growingold #relationshipa...: I have a friend who reminds me—constantly—that she and I are getting old and should find a mate before we get older and unattractive. To t...

Plenty of Time! Really? #growingold #relationshipadvice #spirituality #spiritualadvice #psychology

I have a friend who reminds me—constantly—that she and I are getting old and should find a mate before we get older and unattractive. To that I say, “We have plenty of time.” But as the words proceed from my mouth, my toes curl under in my shoes as to not show her my anxiety.

Do we really have all the time in the world to find true love or anything, for that matter—like a dream job or the perfect home. If you are young, you will probably see a long life ahead. If you are over 45, you realize that you blinked your eyes twice, clicked your heels a few times, and suddenly you are receiving invitations to AARP. Life is not long. It is very short. If you are not doing what you want to do, now, stop everything and get to doing what you really want. This is the moment to live, friends.

It is not too late to find love, either. I have had many of clients and friends who have found love over 50. I even had a client who married at 78 a couple of years ago. A very interesting fact, though, finding love as you are older is actually a little easier, because your requirements become more about finding and attracting a great friend and partner to laugh with and share life. These two attributes become more intriguing than that sexually stunning model.

I know I have had relationships with the stunningly gorgeous. They usually are as plastic as they look. (Yes, a generalization.) People who spend their lives at the gym to look perfect usually have some priority problems. Healthy is wonderful. A beautiful body is a piece of art. But, we always have to look at the primary reason why someone has to be perfectly chiseled, not just exceedingly healthy. Who exactly is he or she trying to attract?

I also know this: when I have felt the least attractive, I have attracted the most handsome men. There is no rhyme or reason to that fact. I have found that people with easily perceivable flaws attract more people because, subconsciously, daters want to know that they can also have flaws. And we all have many flaws, no matter how hard we try to hide them in the dating process.

I work with a lot of middle-aged men and women who have been divorced and are on their fourth or fifth try for a good marriage. These people are the hardest to convince that a good person exists in the world. Most people become jaded after too many failed attempts at love. But, I am here to tell you that anything you really want is not impossible to find or to achieve if you are sowing seeds for it in your mind. You must continue to believe that this new life is possible for you.

The reason the jaded people have problems finding love again is simply because their feelings about love have more impact on the subjective mind (that which creates new love and possibilities) than anyone could possibly imagine. You are the some total of all of what you think and believe.

Life is not over until you believe it is.

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This year, if you desire to commit to a change for a New Year’s Resolution, do it with your MIND first. Remember, as in the title of my new book coming out just in time to help you with this (in March)… lol… that all change happens in your mind, first. You must change your Old Story, to make a consistent and long lasting change in Your Life.

Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, Unlock Your Seven Spiritual Discoveries” in bookstores and in online bookstores in April or May of  2016!

***

Are you in need of Life or Spiritual Coaching? I've been a life coach and clinical hypnotherapist and minister of New Thought for 25 years. I do my sessions online, so you can even have your session in bed, so that you can go directly to sleep during the hypnosis session. You must have a laptop or a notebook to do these sessions, either on Skype or Facetime. You can give me a call at 954-253-6493. My fee is $95 for an hour.

You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you'll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you'll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

* * *

A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: THE INNER BRAT: an unbalanced ego #egobalancing ...

Do you always get what you want? What happens when you don't get what you want? Read on... 



Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: THE INNER BRAT: an unbalanced ego #egobalancing ...: If you have been following the last few blogs, I have been writing about the Ego. We have decided that the ego can be either healthy or un...

THE INNER BRAT: an unbalanced ego #egobalancing #spirituality #spiritualadvice #healthyego

If you have been following the last few blogs, I have been writing about the Ego. We have decided that the ego can be either healthy or unhealthy, balanced or imbalanced. One sign of an unhealthy ego is what the author and speaker, Christian de la Huerta calls “the inner brat.” I have called it in my writing the “inner child who always gets its way.”

You can recognize this part of your ego or in another person quite easily because it appears like the scenario below:

Child: “Mommy, mommy, I want this toy. Please mommy!”

Mother: “You have enough toys. Play with the ones you have already!”

Child: Begins to whimper. “But I want Thomas the Train.”

Mother: “Sorry, not today.” She speaks quietly because they are in Macys.

Child: Crying now. Sits in the middle of the department store floor and won’t budge.

Mother: Tries to get the child to come with her, nicely.

Child: Resists. Begins to rant. “I want Thomas the train now! I want Thomas the train! Thomas! Thomas! Thomas!”

Mother: Now embarrassed because the child is acting out in a large crowd, takes the toy from the shelf and shoves it in the child’s hand.

Child: Immediately stops crying and smirks…

When a child consistently gets what he or she wants, that child learns to control people by bad behavior. The parent loses control. Every in the room becomes controlled by this bad behavior.

That same child can exist in all of us. For those of us who have not dealt with that imbalance in our lives, we may still have that “inner brat” that won’t accept no for an answer from anyone. When we accept this imbalance as this is just me and I can’t help it, then we admit we have no control over ourselves. We may have learned to control others. But, what is more important: self-control, or the ability to manipulate others?

If you experience this feeling about to erupt, you can do yourself a big favor by stepping back from the situation and asking yourself a few probing questions:

1. What am I missing here?
2. Is there a delicate lesson to be learned by me not getting what I want?
3. What will I be if I let go of this feeling?

Of course, you cannot get to this problem if your pulse is pounding out of your chest and your face is flushed. Before you ask the questions, you must take consistent breaths, with your inhales and exhales equal in length and longer than normal. This, of course, will lower your blood pressure and move your body toward a calmer state, so that you can adjust your mental state to more of an observer than one who is actively in the problem and unable to solve anything.

The “inner brat” can be a challenging imbalance, especially if you have allowed it to exist in your for a long time. When I child gets what he or she wants, it only satisfies that current need. Begin to realize that getting what you want right now, in this moment, may be satisfying, but it never challenges you to become a better, more balanced person. The child never learns his lesson that not everything in life is meant for us at any given moment.

Ask yourself this important question: Do you want to appear to your friends and family as that child in Macy’s? If you don’t, begin the process of letting go of the need to control everyone and get everything you desire in the moment you desire it.

Life comes to all of us as we accept the present as the perfect moment, in the perfect time, as peace and love.

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This year, if you desire to commit to a change for a New Year’s Resolution, do it with your MIND first. Remember, as in the title of my new book coming out just in time to help you with this (in March)… lol… that all change happens in your mind, first. You must change your Old Story, to make a consistent and long lasting change in Your Life.

Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, Unlock Your Seven Spiritual Discoveries” in bookstores and in online bookstores in April  or May of 2016!

***

Are you in need of Life or Spiritual Coaching? I've been a life coach and clinical hypnotherapist and minister of New Thought for 25 years. I do my sessions online, so you can even have your session in bed, so that you can go directly to sleep during the hypnosis session. You must have a laptop or a notebook to do these sessions, either on Skype or Facetime. You can give me a call at 954-253-6493. My fee is $95 for an hour.

You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you'll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you'll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

* * *

A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: EGO: uNbAlAnCeD or Balanced #egobalancing #spiritu...

How healthy is your EGO? Read on... 



Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: EGO: uNbAlAnCeD or Balanced #egobalancing #spiritu...: I was once engaged to a woman.  Yes, it’s true.  She is a lovely lady who has gone on to become a prominent psychologist (probably from al...