Life Is a Tapestry #failure #synchronicity #findingpeace #spirituality #psychology

Sometimes, fate, Spirit, life—whatever you want to call it—leads us to the most interesting people. I find that when I’m most tempted to bail out of a situation, but force myself to do it anyway, I am always faced with one of those synchronistic moments that suggests that life is a finely woven tapestry. Last night was one of those moments.

I met a guy in my Spanish as a second language Meetup group who was really nice and funny. His family is Spanish and Italian. They speak only Spanish at home, but he was born in the U.S. and speaks English otherwise. He never really took the time to learn the basic tenets of Spanish. We decided to hang out because he is about at the same level of understanding as I. In fact, we can both teach each other.

Last night we decided to get some pizza at Hollywood beach for his 29th birthday. We brought a blanket, a bottle of wine, and my bluetooth speaker so we could listen to some soft jazz. The night was warm and the moon full. The evening was amazing and could not have been more beautiful. However, just before I was about to leave, I had the feeling I just wanted to sleep. I had no desire to go at all. Still, for some reason, I did not cancel—mostly because it was my friend’s birthday, and I didn’t want to ruin his evening.

As he gets in the car, we begin to chat both in English and Spanish, mostly in Spanish. I thought, ah, this is why I’m here. I really do enjoy learning to speak in another language. A fantastic feeling of accomplishment happens when I find myself immersed in Spanish culture through the language.

As we began to share about our lives, he shared about his ex, which still seemed to sting, I could tell. He told me stories that sounded familiar, as we all have experienced people who care less for us than we do for them; we have all had people try to control us; and we have had people use us. I was compassionate to all of the above.

However, at the end of the story, he began to describe his ex. Incredulously, the only person he had ever cared for in his entire life happened to be the first guy I dated when I moved to Florida. I have dated three guys since I have been here for no more than three months each and broke up for much the same reason. None wasn’t the right one. But, what are the friggin’ odds of one of those 3 guys being his ex?

I look forward, now, to see the lesson behind all of this.

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This year, if you desire to commit to a change for a New Year’s Resolution, do it with your MIND first. Remember, as in the title of my new book coming out just in time to help you with this (in March)… lol… that all change happens in your mind, first. You must change your Old Story, to make a consistent and long lasting change in Your Life.

Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, Unlock Your Seven Spiritual Discoveries” in bookstores and in online bookstores in May or June of 2016!

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Are you in need of Life or Spiritual Coaching? I've been a life coach and clinical hypnotherapist and minister of New Thought for 25 years. I do my sessions online, so you can even have your session in bed, so that you can go directly to sleep during the hypnosis session. You must have a laptop or a notebook to do these sessions, either on Skype or Facetime. You can give me a call at 954-253-6493. My fee is $95 for an hour.

You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you'll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you'll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

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A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

A UNIVERSE OF ATTRACTION #spiritualadvice #lawofattraction #Abraham #ScienceofMind #SOM #SpiritualLiving

When considering your life, you must always realize that this universe is a universe based on the Law of Attraction. So, what you think, what you believe, and what you say will always attract to you the contents of your mind.

If you want to change your life for the better, you must always begin with aligning your self to the harmony and peace of the universe. If all you do to change your thoughts is switch to a thought that is about something beautiful on earth—a hummingbird, a butterfly, the ocean, the stars—then you immediately switch off the negative thought and turn back on the attraction to the positive energy. Your goal here is to stay in the positive energy as much as you can to attract a positive outcome.

Now, we live in a world of CONTRAST. So, it is highly likely that negativity will present itself to you today. What should you do with that negativity? Well, if it comes to you as a negative person spewing his or her ugly thoughts on you; distance yourself from that person. Begin to see him or her bathed in a beautiful purple light. Imagine that light to be unconditional love. Remember: You cannot change anyone. You can change your perception, though.

If the negativity presents itself to you as a condition in your life, learn to look at that condition as a lesson.

We learn everything in our life from this condition of contrast in the Universe. We don’t, however, have to stay in the negative energy of the condition to learn the lesson. In fact, the quicker we recognize the lesson, the fast we can pull ourselves out of the negativity. We can think positive thoughts about it. But, it is important to be gentle with yourself while pulling yourself out of the mire. Give your self time. You may need to scream, to punch a pillow, or exercise until you are exhausted. But, the objective here is to slowly pull yourself back into your positive energy with the idea that your condition is temporary and only a lesson.

Lastly, we must learn to know what our desires are in life and not be afraid to think of these desires, almost constantly. Whenever a negative thought pops into your mind, see yourself in your dream as already having your goal. See it clearly. If you can’t see that dream, then simply focus on something beautiful. The goal here is to stay positive, in positive energy all day. Why? Because you live in a universe based on THE LAW OF ATTRACTION!

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You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you'll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you'll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

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A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

How Much Is Enough? #prosperity

When you are hungry, is there food to eat? When the rent or the house payment is due, do you have the money to pay it? Do you have the cash for gas? Do you have money for two vacations a year to a villa in Italy? Do you have the money to get your swimming pool fixed?

Enough is always determined by your standard of living. If you feel that just having enough money to pay your bills is your goal, then you will probably manage to get just that much every month. If you have the capacity to believe that you deserve, and should have, enough for all of your bills, money to eat out at a nice restaurant twice a week, and extra for that great pair of shoes or vacation, then you will probably have that, too. We definitely attract to our lives the amount of money we feel we need to survive and be happy.

I see people with Lack Consciousness all the time. They fear that they will not have enough, daily. This is a difficult anxiety to manage. It impacts everything they do, from the job interview, to the money management, to even spending money on themselves for something they may need desperately, like a new pair of shoes so that their back won’t hurt as they stand on their feet all day at the job.

Sometimes this anxiety can appear even when the person still always has enough money for cigarettes and beer everyday. Talk about prosperity consciousness! This person barely has enough to survive with food and can almost never get together enough money for rent, yet ALWAYS has $10-15 a day for cigarette and beer. That’s $450 a month that could be going toward something that would contribute to life instead of killing life.

But, people have their priorities. You see, even if your consciousness is programmed to have money for cigarettes and beer everyday, you will probably attract this to your life, because the Law of Attraction is NOT a judge. It simply is a law that Spirit has put in place to help the world run according to plan. If you are able to embrace that theory, like science, then attracting what you need to live, should not be a problem.

If God created enough food for the birds, the bees, the fish, why is there not enough for you? Something is amiss in consciousness, because all of nature has it figured out, except you. What is missing in your consciousness that would allow you to attract all that you need and more?

For me, I have to apply affirmations to my negative believe of lack everyday, or most especially when fear seems to rise about not having enough. I also pray, knowing with absolute trust that Spirit flourishes in all of life, including my own. God leads the birds in the sky to food. If I let God, my own spirit, mind, and body will be led to the waters for which I thirst. I will be fed enough, and more than enough, so that I can share.

I pray believing this fact, as I also treat for the consciousness of lack in the world, in my home, and for the people in my close proximity. As I do so, I find myself liberated from the burden of lack. Possibilities come to me with money attached, almost daily. When I listen closely, I must work at sowing the seeds that my consciousness reveals to me in my time of meditation and quiet, so that Spirit can water the ideas and dreams in my soul.

As this happens, then rightly so, my dreams will bear fruit in due time, as will yours! This is 

Law!

Please check out my new book below: Learning Alone, The Love Song of the Anxiously Attached.

  

A Cookbook, a Novel, a Self-Help Book, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

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Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]