Bo Sebastian's Finding Authentic You!: living the science of mind

Sunday, February 14, 2016

Valentines Giving with(out) Love #valentinesday #love #spiritualadvice #livingtruth

We do not have to wonder too far to see what Giving feels like without Love, as humanity has made it a mandate to give before we feel like giving on Christmas, Valentine’s Day, and birthdays. I know we all have had to bring a gift somewhere with no love attached as proper protocol. This feels empty and senseless, in my estimation.

This year, I was spending the Valentine’s holiday with a friend from Dublin. We had ten wonderful days together. Neither of us even thought of Valentine’s day until the day before, when we were in the grocery store and bombarded with bright red hearts-a-plenty. Then, I felt the obligation to give a gift.

The morning before the holiday, as I went about my day, ignoring the obligatory feeling. I decided that if love does not move me to buy a gift, then I simply would not give one. Our friendship had always been about being the most authentic as we could be. I did feel as if I wanted to buy a card that expressed my thankfulness for his wonderful friendship. I found the perfect card and felt satisfied with just that.

Later that day, our conversations became deeper about his impending departure. I discovered a real need in my heart to buy him something that would allow me to go home with him, across the Atlantic Ocean, in a spiritual and tangible way. I had no idea what to get him, but I knew that I would find a time to get the perfect gift before he left.

As it turned out, he had a healing session the afternoon that afternoon. As I was the designated driver, I had an hour to use. In those moments, I felt love lead me to a store to shop for that one special gift.

This is love in action. This is love leading you to the expression of the heart. If you do not feel this kind of love, why even bother with the gift buying? This is my credo.

Even at Christmas, my family has dismissed the obligatory giving and taken to having a grab-bag, which has no love intention at all. It is a simple way of showing that giving within the family is something we do to show our gratefulness and love. If we feel inclined to buy the children (or anyone) something, we often do. Very few people can resist the face of a child when he or she is opening a gift.

So, today is about separating yourself from the obligation of giving to anything or anyone. If you do not feel it, release from it. You will also find yourself letting go of the resentment attached to giving without love, which feels like paying bills, anyway. Stay authentic to your Truth. You will never go wrong with this premise in life.

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This year, if you desire to commit to a change for a New Year’s Resolution, do it with your MIND first. Remember, as in the title of my new book coming out just in time to help you with this (in January)… lol… that all change happens in your mind, first. You must change your Old Story, to make a consistent and long lasting change in Your Life.

Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, Unlock Your Seven Spiritual Discoveries” in bookstores and in online bookstores in January 2016!

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Friday, February 12, 2016

Polarizing Thought #polarizingthought #feelingenergy #spiritualadvice #livingtruth

The process of polarization in science is a property of waves that can oscillate with more than one orientation. Electromagnetic waves such as light exhibit polarization, as do some other types of waves, such as gravitational waves, because they can go in many directions at the same time. Sound waves in a gas or liquid do not exhibit polarization, since the oscillation is always in one direction the wave travels. (Wikipedia, 2016) However, the nonscientific meaning of “to be polarized” means to divide or cause to divide into two sharply contrasting groups or sets of opinions or beliefs.

So, to polarize or divide something, you must first begin with the whole. When a country is divided about a leader or a theory of belief, they are polarized by the instigator of a radical leader, perhaps. This is important to understand when viewing our own polarized thoughts in many varying degrees about such things as our future, prosperity, and relationships.

Polarization in thought manifests mostly when someone initially begins to understand that everything in our life begins in mind. All the positive things and the negative ones start with seed thoughts.

Most people can consider this idea, but they have instigators, such as fear and anxiety, that can easily pull and separate them from their spiritual belief. This means you can give fear and anxiety the power to Polarize your truth, so that it will never be effective in your life. You will plant prosperity seeds with one hand. With the other hand, dig them up.

Let’s start with the example of that very principle: prosperity. You wake up one day thrilled at the idea that Spirit is offering you the world. You begin to step into your power. You sow seeds of prosperity for a new job. You actually attain the job from strong belief and steady faith. Then, suddenly, without provocation, a stumbling block comes up in your life.

The company that gave you your new job has decided to close its doors, because of financial problems. You begin to think that the theory of the science of mind no longer works because of this one instance or that you simply do not deserve good in your life. Your thoughts, then, become polarized.

You want to believe that Spirit is on your side, but “some” evidence appears in your life that would prove otherwise. So, how do you stop fear from polarizing your spiritual belief?

When a thought comes up in your mind that is negative, you must simply state your truth. So, if you felt fear in that moment that you lost your job, you would say to yourself:

“This is what I know. God is all in all. God is the love and the beauty and the prosperity in the ocean, the sky, and the vast universe. This energy created me. I am one with this energy. I flow in it. And it flows through me. I let these negative thoughts come up into the light so that I can gently dissolve them in the power of truth. I am already prosperous now. The best job I’ve ever had is waiting for me now, as I continue to believe it is so. I release my intention to the eternal law of love and mind. And so it is.”

The concept seems simple, but the process of actually having the strength and courage to step out in faith and pray this prayer in the midst of struggle takes practice, even when you do not need anything from Spirit. You must begin to incorporate your truth into your everyday life, so that when stumbling blocks come, you already have fortified your mind with the kind of love and truth that will vaporize the negativity as you speak your words into Divine Mind.

Remember: You are made and created in the image of God, which means that you are already a reflection of every one of God’s attributes: compassion, love, prosperity, truth, wisdom, and beauty.