Whether in Bad or Good Weather #badweather #whatisgood #spirituality #SOM #lawofmind #truth

Oscar Wilde said, “It is absurd to divide people into Good and Bad. People are either charming or tedious!” I would go one metaphorical step further to say, “It is absurd to judge (period)—anything—people or acts.” The bible says that God rains on everyone… the good and the perceived evil.

The reason why we are told not to judge by many ancient scriptures is simply because it is not our place to judge anything. “He who has no fault, let him cast the first stone,” Jesus said.

So, if I think about Jesus’ premise, I’d be the first to stop my judgment of others. However, losing our critical edge is a difficult process. Trying not to make judgments against people and events is more difficult than you would imagine, especially since an average adult makes 35,000 decisions in a day (Quora.com). Our brains are constantly using that critical edge to judge whether we should run that yellow light, let our child go out after dark, eat that dessert, or run instead of walk. Judging is an integral part of life as eating is. So, you cannot take away the critical processing from the brain without losing the good function and the bad. (Ah, there again… judging by good and bad. Is it impossible to stop with the comparison?)

As a hypnotherapist, when people would come to me to stop smoking, it was considerably easier than helping them stop eating too much. Why? Eating is something you have to do, every day. So, starting to eat anything often makes you want to eat more. When you stop a habit like smoking, you simply do not smoke anything, which is why I’m not in favor of the vapor substitute, unless the person is using it to titrate off of nicotine.

We must stay critical in our thinking to stay on point with our jobs and in our choices. However, when we let this criticism spill over into our thoughts about people and current events, in general, we begin to judge something that is out of our realm or spectrum of judgment. We head down a road that is difficult to maneuver without pointing those four fingers back to ourselves.

So, today, try spending one day without calling any person or event bad or good. We do not know the purpose or the eventual outcome of anything in life. We do not have an omniscient brain to know the larger truth behind anything in life. So, perhaps, we should stick to our microcosm and focus in on getting our own lives right. Point those four fingers of energy at where it will matter most and make effective change.

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This year, if you desire to commit to a change for a New Year’s Resolution, do it with your MIND first. Remember, as in the title of my new book coming out just in time to help you with this (in January)… lol… that all change happens in your mind, first. You must change your Old Story, to make a consistent and long lasting change in Your Life.

Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, Unlock Your Seven Spiritual Discoveries” in bookstores and in online bookstores in January 2016!

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How Conscious Are Your Choices? #decisionmaking

Everyday, we make the small choices in life that get us to work, buy us lunch, urge us to take an umbrella, and choose what channel to watch on television. But, are we making these decisions without our intuition? Are we instinctively moving along in life, like an animal would toward food and female dogs in heat? Learning to live from spiritual intuition is an important step in becoming a “Choice-Driven Person” or a “Chance-Driven Person.”

With Chance-Driven decisions, we take our creative energy and suspend it completely, letting life move us like the wind tossing a piece of paper on our lawn. But, with Choice-Driven decisions, we allow our conscious, creative mind to take part in where and what direction we move in our lives, which allows us to be led—instead of pushed.

As we evolve consciously, we develop spiritual intuition, which, hopefully, will replace our need for our baser reactive side—the animalistic instinct. Every person, just like every animal on earth, has a propensity to move through life with instinct. This helps animal stay far enough from the edge of a cliff, not eat poisonous food, stay away from dark, shadowy alleyways, and take shelter during a storm. These instinctual mechanics are in each of us, like software loaded into a computer’s mainframe. They help us out to stay alive, but are these instincts enough to move forward into a spiritual life?

At this age of our spiritual growth, if we haven’t learned the difference between our instinct and our intuition, which is a Spiritual urging toward something higher and a more distinctive class of learning, we may end up being tossed about by our instinct, instead of our intuition.

As we talked about yesterday, sometimes Spirit calls us to take the higher road, instead of the easier road. So, we sit at the beginning of our own yellow brick road and wait with indecision and ambiguity for a good witch to appear out of the sky to lead us on the right road. However, remember that: “no decision is a decision to not make a decision.” So, we must dig deeper into our souls and take a leap of faith to move toward the direction spirit leads our hearts.

I have to tell you, from my own choices recently, I have taken the leap into a space that is completely propelled by a spiritual search. Each day, though I have had to face some rejection along the way, I have learned that even the rejections are not instinctual. They are steps toward making the right and best choices for spiritual purpose. Someone who has never made a mistake has not moved an inch in life. Mistakes are medals of honor for each person willing to make the harder choices in life and learn from their mistakes.

Take a chance today, and live from your spiritual intuition!

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One of the decisions we make daily to keep us healthy is the food we choose. Gluten-free eating is proven to help with bloating, stomach problems, weight gain, and mental issues. This cookbook is a great start to help you make the simple change to a gluten-free diet. 

[Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books helps people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE. Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle: ]